PRIVATE SHIDDUCH DATING COACHING
Frum Dating Coaching for Orthodox Jewish Singles
You do not have to figure out every date by yourself.
Whether you are finding it hard to start dating, waiting for suitable suggestions, or trying to understand a relationship that is developing, you can talk it through with Adeena.
Adeena Halberstam is a frum dating coach based in Los Angeles, working virtually with Orthodox Jewish men and women dating for marriage. She brings 15+ years of experience as a volunteer shadchan and a dating coaching certificate from Rabbi Dr. Yossi Ives.
Private coaching sessions are 30 minutes, with a single session priced at $125. Start with a free 10-minute discovery call to see whether working together feels right.
“Her guidance, wisdom, and genuine care made all the difference in our journey. Without her support, our marriage wouldn’t have been possible.”
WHO COACHING IS FOR
You can get support at any point in the process.
You do not need to wait for a crisis or a particular dating milestone. Coaching meets you where you are now.
Dating has not started
You want to date, but fear, uncertainty, past experiences, or practical obstacles keep delaying the first step.
The right suggestions are not coming
You keep hearing that there is nobody suitable, or the matches you receive do not seem to reflect who you are and what matters to you.
A relationship is developing
You are seeing someone and want help communicating clearly, understanding what is unfolding, and giving the relationship room to grow.
Bring the part of dating that feels hardest right now.
Dating decisions
You are not sure whether to continue, pause, or end something, and you want to understand what is driving the hesitation.
Repeating patterns
You keep reaching the same point with different people and want to understand what might be getting in the way.
Confidence
You want to show up as yourself without spending the whole date monitoring every word, reaction, or impression.
Being too picky or not picky enough
You want to distinguish a real incompatibility from a preference, fear, or expectation that may be getting too much weight.
Shidduch burnout
You are tired of resumes, calls, dates, feedback, and starting over. You want help staying grounded without pretending the process is easy.
Communicating with shadchanim and parents
You want to explain yourself better, give useful feedback, or set boundaries around advice without creating unnecessary tension.
What you are actually looking for
Your list may be long, vague, inherited from other people, or simply outdated. We can work on what truly matters to you in a spouse and marriage.
Preparing to date
You are about to enter or re-enter the dating process and want to begin with more self-awareness, confidence, and realistic expectations.
A frum dating coach who understands the shidduch process.
Adeena has more than 15 years of experience as a volunteer shadchan. She understands what happens before the first date, how feedback is interpreted, the role of families and references, and the pressures that are specific to frum dating.
She also received a dating coaching certificate from Rabbi Dr. Yossi Ives.
As a shidduch coach, Adeena brings that experience into conversations about your own dating questions, concerns, and next steps.
Important distinction
Adeena’s paid service is coaching only. She still makes matches as a volunteer, but hiring her for coaching does not include paid matchmaking, active match searching, or guaranteed suggestions.
Short enough to stay focused. Long enough to get somewhere useful.
Adeena prefers 30-minute sessions because dating questions are often easier to work through when the conversation has a clear focus.
You can come in with one current situation or a broader pattern. Adeena will help you slow it down, identify what is actually happening, ask the questions that matter, and leave with a clearer next step.
You do not need to prepare a perfect summary before the call. Bring the real situation as it is.
COACHING OPTIONS
Start with the level of support you need.
All new coaching clients start with a free discovery call. If we decide to work together, choose one focused session or a package that gives us more time to work through patterns as they come up.
Free Discovery Call
Free
10 minutes
A short conversation to talk about what is going on, what you want help with, and whether working together makes sense.
- Get to know Adeena
- Ask your most important questions
- No pressure to book coaching
Clarity Session
$125
30 minutes
Best for one current decision, question, or dating situation that you want to think through clearly.
- Focus on one pressing issue
- Get direct, thoughtful feedback
- Leave with practical next steps
Dating Clarity
$450
4 sessions, 30 minutes each
Best for singles who want to work on recurring patterns, confidence, decision-making, or several stages of active dating.
- Four focused sessions
- Time to identify patterns and test new approaches
- Saves $50 compared with four single sessions
Dating Partnership
$850
8 sessions, 30 minutes each
Best for singles who want consistent coaching through a longer stretch of dating and enough time to work more deeply.
- Eight focused sessions
- More continuity across changing dating situations
- Saves $150 compared with eight single sessions
A few questions before we speak.
What is a shidduch dating coach?
A shidduch coach, also called a shidduch dating coach, helps you work through the parts of dating that belong to you: your decisions, patterns, communication, expectations, and concerns. A coach does not choose a spouse for you. The point is to help you think more clearly and date in a way that fits your values.
How is dating coaching different from working with a shadchan?
A shadchan looks for possible matches and helps manage introductions and feedback. Dating coaching focuses on you. Adeena may help you prepare for a date, understand a recurring pattern, decide whether to continue, or communicate more clearly with a shadchan or parent. Her paid coaching does not include matchmaking or a promise of suggestions.
Do I need to be actively dating?
No. Coaching can help before dating begins, especially when fear, uncertainty, past experiences, or practical obstacles keep delaying the first step. It can also help when suitable suggestions are not coming or the matches you receive do not reflect what matters to you.
Can coaching help while I am dating someone?
Yes. You can use a session to talk through communication, pacing, compatibility, attraction, uncertainty, or a decision about another date. The goal is not to push a relationship forward. It is to help you understand what is happening and respond thoughtfully.
How much does dating coaching cost?
A single 30-minute Clarity Session is $125. The four-session Dating Clarity package is $450, and the eight-session Dating Partnership package is $850. New clients can begin with a free 10-minute discovery call.
Where are sessions held?
Adeena is based in Los Angeles and works with clients virtually, so you do not need to live in California. The free discovery call is by phone. Details for paid coaching sessions are provided when you schedule.
The right kind of support matters.
Dating coaching is practical and goal-focused. It can help with decisions, patterns, communication, confidence, and navigating the dating process.
It is not psychotherapy. If you are dealing with significant anxiety, depression, trauma, an eating disorder, abuse, or another mental health concern, Adeena may encourage you to work with an appropriately licensed professional. Coaching can sometimes complement therapy, but it should not replace it.
A CLEARER DATING PROCESS CAN START WITH ONE CONVERSATION
You can bring the question you keep replaying.
Start with a free 10-minute call. You do not need to know exactly what kind of coaching you need before we speak.
No pressure. Just a real conversation about where you are and what might help.